(adj.) when you're truly at peace and in touch with yourself, and nothing anyone says or does bothers you, and no negativity or drama can touch you.
I’ve come across this term in my mediation and self-development sessions. I love this word. It doesn’t mean you are ignorant about what’s going on around you or that you are selfish. The negative stuff just can’t pull you down. It is the state I want to achieve one day. Wrong wording, I learned that too. It is the state I will achieve soon. I have already come a long way on my self-development journey. I’m not the person I used to be last year or the year before or five years ago. You might argue that is normal, nobody is the person the used to be in the past no matter how long ago the past is. I disagree. I know people who have not changed at all; at least not in their way and behavior and thinking. If they are happy with that, fine. Some might actually already be in that unfuckwithable state. Good for them! I’m not there yet but I’m getting closer every day. I have moments when I feel I have reached it. It feels wonderful then. And then there are moments when a stupid fu----- car driver makes me shout out very impolite words that express all the anger I’m feeling at that moment. Yeah, far from that perfect state of unfuckwithable. Luckily such days have become much less and I often realize what I’m doing. Then I’m a bit angry with myself and then I smile because I’ve caught myself.
I will be like Gru’s mom who just shrugs her shoulders and goes ‘eh’. (In case you don’t know who I’m talking about, watch 'Despicable me' 😉 .) I don’t care about the negativity around me, I don’t care about the drama around me, I’m very happy and at peace with myself and my world around me.
That’s what I will be – unfuckwithable.